Friday, November 28, 2014

What I Wore, And Visible Monday Special Edition

Here's what I wore for Thanksgiving day fun with my sister and her family. The sweater (similar) and jeggings (yes! jeggings [similar] are fab at 50+) are both via Old Navy. The killer J. Crew boots (similar) were thrifted last year, under $30, with leather like buttah.

We had a wonderful day with a lot of laughs and food, and I hope you did too. There's a lot to be grateful for.

Faux pearls are great with casual outfits, yes?

My gorgeous baby sister and her two beautiful girls.

Announcement: This is not our usual weekend for Visible Monday, but we're inaugurating a special edition! One of my favorite dress designers, Karina Dresses, has agreed to sponsor the First Monday of the Month as a special Giveaway event. Not only is Karina providing the fab dress I'll be wearing, but they're going to give away a dress to a lucky reader. Every First Monday - a Karina giveaway, that's good stuff.

Karina Dresses do all their design and manufacturing in Brooklyn ("Made With Love in Brooklyn" is one of their mottos). They provide good jobs to local people, and make quality garments. This is not fast, disposable fashion. They build gorgeous style on an artistic and ethical foundation.





Stay fabulous and I'll see you this Sunday evening for our inaugural First Monday,

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Wednesday, November 26, 2014

I Don't Have A Wish List, But If I Did . . .

I think I'm too seasoned at age 59 to have a "wish list." If I really, really want something and it fits in the monthly budget, I'll buy it. I don't actually buy much, by mass consuming standards, but I don't deny myself little pleasures either. If not now (for NYC, good books, good friends, great coffee and wine, some fab style) . . . when?

But if I did have a wish list, it might contain these few goodies:

  • Walking shoes. I am on a quest for super-comfortable walking shoes, as in: I can walk for 3 or 4 miles on NYC streets in a day and still feel good. I bought some very cool Rieker booties but had to return them: too snug across the instep. Here are a couple pair up for consideration:
Mott Oxfords by Born.

Whistle Vine by Clarks.


  • Faux fur vest. Why, why do I want one of these when it's still in the 80's in Florida? I don't rightly know, I just want one. I've been searching the thrifts but haven't found the right one yet. Maybe this:

I like the short boxy shape. From Jones New York.


Love the colors in this one (it's faux). Via Nordstrom.

  • Homes for kittens. I'm a slave to the Livestream account of TinyKittens. Mother cat Dorothy gave birth (I watched!) to six darling kittens. I'd take the one with the cleft palate, just in case no one else will adopt him. Sandy threatens divorce, but I don't think he means it. I'll be happy enough if all six babies and gorgeous mom Dorothy get good homes.

Dorothy and her babies. Do want.

Do you have a wish list? Share, please, you never know who may be reading.  : >  And to my US friends, have a wonderful Thanksgiving!


Stay fabulous,

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Sunday, November 23, 2014

VisibleMonday #143: A Long Vintage Dress Is Modern

Welcome to Visible Monday #143! If you want to participate, it's so easy: just go to the bottom of this post for the how-to. Please be kind and leave a link to Not Dead Yet Style in your post.

I like long dresses and skirts. I don't mind showing my legs, but long skirts feel so great, and I can ride my bike, cross my legs, climb the stairs and etc. This cool vintage 80's dress is via Citizen Rosebud's Etsy store, go there and shop. I think the open neckline keeps the dress from being mumsy, although I don't mind mumsy on occasion.

I wore a thrifted blue suede belt and open wedge sandals, as the temperatures are back to the upper 70's. Will my boots ever get a chance to come out and play??

Long dresses are actually very freeing. I never have to wonder if I'm flashing something personal.

My best boy, King, likes to hang with me at photo time.


Now, show us what you're wearing, Visible Women!!


The guidelines to participate in the Visible Monday Link-Up are so simple!
  1. Whoever wants to can join in! Just compose a post that includes any outfit, accessory, piece of jewelry, hairstyle, cosmetic or other adornment that makes you feel more confident, alive and visible that day.
  2. Include a link to Not Dead Yet Style somewhere in your post. Please leave a comment, too, so we know you had a good time.
  3. Go to the bottom of this post and click on the InLinkz button "Add Your Link". It should open a new page.
  4. In the "Next Step", you crop the pic (easy tool) you want to display, and you're done!

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Friday, November 21, 2014

Thanks, I Think; Visible Monday Reminder

We were at the Ear Inn, one of our favorite hangouts in NYC. The bartenders there have star presence (due to their experience, not their movie star looks). A shot of tequila on the house is not unheard of. The food is good, and the jazz trio is smooth.



So we were sitting next to some delightful, gorgeous 20-something women, having a cheery girls' night out. One of them said to me, "We're just saying we hope we look like you when we get older." I said thanks, and she went on to say "You still look cool."


So I was like all:

Oh, thanks.

Always a lively crowd, of all ages. Source.

I'm flattered to be not-invisible to the younger generation. But I am still struggling to believe I'm one of the "older women," even though it's undeniably true. Is that because I'm still so immature down deep? 

See you at Visible Monday, and stay fabulous,

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Wednesday, November 19, 2014

What I Wore: Blue Linen Shirt, Any Time of The Year

My clothes have to serve for a climate that ranges from warm, to very warm, to blazing hot, and then mildly cool. I have had to wean myself from buying big cozy sweaters and fleece leggings, even though I love that look. Some versatile pieces do work perfectly for ten months of the year in Florida (nothing feels good in August and September except nudity and iced tea).

The magic pieces include: denim and cotton skirts; knit dresses that can be easily layered; long-sleeve but lightweight knit tops; and button-down shirts. This blue classic linen shirt (similar) was a thrift find for just a few dollars. It doesn't hold wrinkles, if you give it six good shakes from the washer.

The year-round skirt is dark denim from Old Navy (similar). I was doing open shoes last week when this pic was taken, but today it's ankle booties. The blue velvet belt was thrifted years ago, and the bead necklace was made by a friend.

Sorry for the lack of focus; caffeinated photographer. The older I get, though, the less I mind a bit of blur  : >


Stay warm and fabulous,

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Monday, November 17, 2014

The Woman I Wanted To Be

That's the title of Diane von Furstenberg's new book: The Woman I Wanted To Be. I saw her at a book-signing in NYC and she's still gorgeous and compelling. I haven't read the book yet, but she has had an amazing life as a designer, businesswoman, Princess, wife, mother and more.


As for me, the woman I wanted to be was always non-traditional, as far back as I can remember. I cannot recall a time when I wanted to have children, for example. I know now, and I must have known back then, that it wasn't a good choice for me.

I wanted to have a partner, and I love being married now. I wasn't very good at it in my twenties. I've never cared for cooking, and haven't hosted a Christmas dinner in my life. I don't decorate for the holidays. I have complete respect and awe for the women who have done, and continue to do these things.

Work and academics were central to me. Like many of my generation I was the first in my family to graduate college. I loved being a Bachelor Girl in Boston and Washington D.C., and doing all the things BG's do on the regular.

I've worked in big cities, traveled, gone to graduate school, opened a therapy practice, and rescued cats, and lived by the sea. New York City will be my next big adventure, I hope. As I recount this life, it sounds self-absorbed. I hope it hasn't been. I've tried to do well by my patients. I have an egalitarian marriage that gets better all the time. I look forward to volunteering for the Red Cross and the Cat Thrift and more.

Hold on, I'm coming.

All in all, I have become the woman I wanted to be. The journey isn't over, but I'm just six months from age 60, and I am who I am. I know I have missed out on many joys (and some heartache) by staying child-free. I won't have any grandchildren to cuddle, or a big table around me at Christmas. I'll have memories and peace all the same, lots of memories and peace.

Have you taken a road less traveled? I would love to hear.

Stay fabulous,


Saturday, November 15, 2014

What I Wore: Lime Jeans and Dots

I didn't think of my style as embracing lime green jeans. Then I found these, by Eileen Fisher, (similar) in a NYC thrift for $10. They fit like a dream and are well-made. I'd call them true straight legs, as the width doesn't change from the knee down. And I find them versatile too - I wear them with black, white, and navy of course, but they also look great with contrasting print tops.

The vee-neck blouse is by Cynthia Rowley (similar), picked up at the Revolve Clothing Exchange. I wear it all the time because it: goes with everything; is a season-less polyester; and therefore washes and dries with no ironing. For the win.

Simple jewelry and nude Anne Klein platforms, and messy hair, to finish the look.


And a tossed-on scarf that looks cute, but was too uncomfortable to wear from more than an hour.

I know colored jeans are so yesterday (like we grown-up fashionistas care) . . .  but do you wear them?


Stay fabulous,


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Visible Monday is on its "off" week this week, so we can recharge, refresh, and enjoy the great outdoors. ☺ We'll be back on Monday, December 1st (actually, the Sunday evening before)!