Friday, August 22, 2014

Weekend Check-In #4: Tell Us What You're Thinking

Time for another edition of Weekend Check-In! It consists of random thoughts, left over at the end of the week, about style and more. The fun part is you playing along in the comments.

I'll start an open sentence about fashion, or life, the universe and everything, and complete the sentence with whatever I'm thinking about. Then you finish the sentence with your own random thoughts.

 So, the (non) rules are:
  1. I start a sentence.
  2. I finish the sentence with my thoughts du jour, subject to change at any moment.
  3. You finish the sentence with your own response, in the comments, if you like.

This week's check-in: 

  • I'm currently fascinated with . . . an alternative wedding band, very vintage, with personality. I adore my husband but don't hold my simple band as the only option. So we've agreed an alternate band would be fun, and just as loving as the original (13 years ago).
This ring dates to the Victorian era. I love the detail. Available at The Three Graces.

  • I am starting to get used to the idea of . . . culottes. Yes, culottes, that awkward word that sounds like a body part or communicable disease ("My first boyfriend gave me culottes, the jerk.") I saw these online and said, well maybe. Never say never. With platform sandals and a slim knit top?

I really like these simple culottes from

  • The worst movie or TV show I saw this week was: The Sentinel, starring Michael Douglas, Kim Basinger, and Kiefer Sutherland. Pretty good leading cast, right? But the film was flat, predictable, and I may have fallen asleep at the end. To be fair, I had a bad cold that day, and couldn't deal with anything too cerebral.

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Wednesday, August 20, 2014

What I Wore: One Dress, At Least Two Ways

I find I'm wearing this simple black linen dress from GAP (similar) a couple of times a week. I wear it on its own for casual days, and with a topper for the office. I wash it by hand and let it drip-dry and get just a few linen-quality wrinkles.

Today's topper is a cool zebra blouse, thrifted at Monk's in Greenwich Village. Also wearing my vintage tassel necklace from Molly Mutt and gifted sandals from a fab company that's now out of business, too bad.

Are you mixing up your casual summer dresses for work-wear too?

Office-worthy, with shoulders covered.

The dress worn solo in Greenwich Village last May.

Have a super day and stay fabulous,

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Monday, August 18, 2014

How I Camped, And Lived To Tell

I am a city slicker, the city cousin, Anne Marie from That Girl, you name it, I am a city lover. I want to live full time in the city, walk everywhere, go to art galleries and coffee shops, and live amid diversity.

But we can get in a vacation rut. Sandy and I have always stayed at the Hilton in St. Petersburg when we take in a Tampa Bay Rays game. It was my bright idea to try "glamping" this last trip. I was seduced by pictures like these:


Romantic, even sexy! And you can still call it camping. Well, there were no places that resembled the above anywhere on the Gulf Coast of Florida. I scoured the 'nets and came up finally with: KOA in St. Petersburg Beach.  No tent there would suit me: they were all of the Girl Scout variety and pretty rustic. And we don't own an RV, so it was cabin ("Chalet") for us.

Let me first insist that everyone we met at the campground was kind and helpful. The Chalet was clean and bug-free, and had running water, clean towels, and air conditioning (yes!).

We felt welcome right away.

But I'm just not a country kind of woman. I was lonely for the bright lights and pounding music of the big city. The nearest place to get even a glass of wine was a long drive. No tapas for miles. Sad and lonely.

Our chalet. It was cozy and clean and the toilet backed up only once, quickly fixed.

Master of Disguise: can you see the heron?

At the game, surrounded by Yankee fans. We yelled for the home team, but lost 3-2. Found comfort at the pub.

So lesson learned: I can endure any kind of urban hardship, I am not afraid of rats or noise or $8 lattes. But give me a quiet, peaceful night in the country and I go slowly nuts. To thine own self be true - but try new stuff too, 'cause one never knows till one tries.

Are you a happy camper? Love to hear how rustic you'll go, in comparison to my wimpy adventure.

Have a glorious day and stay fabulous,

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Saturday, August 16, 2014

Lauren Bacall's Ageless, Stunning Style

Farewell to a Hollywood legend. Lauren Bacall died Tuesday, at age 89. RIP, gorgeous and talented lady.

New York Magazine published a fabulous slideshow of her style through the years. See the whole show here, and have a peek at a few of her amazing looks below:

Her signature high-waisted trousers and awesome shoulder pads, mid 40's.
Love the monochromatic, simple chic look. She and Katherine Hepburn were pioneers of pants.

A statement sweater, more high-waisted trousers and peep-toe wedges. This would look great right now.

Wow, the zebra top is TDF. She kept true to her simple style and wore it with a white pencil skirt. 1954.

Color-blocking like a boss. Gorgeous green sweater. Mid-1950's.

In 1966, she looks glam and gorgeous in an unfussy gown. And, pockets!

At age 75, still rocking her cool, classic look in all-silver.

Have the best weekend, and stay fabulous,

Visible Monday is on its "off" week this week, so we can recharge, refresh, and go glamping (details to follow). ☺  We'll be back on Monday, August 25th (actually, the Sunday evening before)!

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Thursday, August 14, 2014

Good News Thursday: Smart Women, Happy Elephant

Just happy news today, as there's plenty enough sad and worrisome stories in the "regular" news.

1. Woo-hoo! I read this on BBC News today:

An Iranian mathematician working in the US has become the first ever female winner of the celebrated Fields Medal [the equivalent of a Nobel Prize in Mathematics].

In a landmark hailed as "long overdue", Prof Maryam Mirzakhani was recognized for her work on complex geometry.

In becoming the very first female medallist, Prof Mirzakhani - who teaches at Stanford University in California - ends what has been a long wait for the mathematics community.  

The news is inspiring to young women working in/studying math and science. Compute on, Professor Mirzakhani!

2. Elephants are sensitive, highly intelligent animals Here's a story that made me smile, via The Good News Network:

An orphaned elephant that spent half a century in chains is enjoying his freedom after being rescued in India.

Officials at the Wildlife SOS Elephant Conservation and Care Center were afraid Raju would never be able to reconnect with his own species.

Leave it to the ladies to make Raju feel welcomed. The Herd of Hope, how great is that?

But, when Raju arrived unshackled at his new home, welcoming female elephants trumpeted a friendly hello.

“Three of our female elephants Laxmi, Chanchal and Sai Geeta ran up to him – their ears flapping wildly –a sign they were excited and delighted to meet him.

All of them were rescued from a life of suffering and now are known collectively as the Herd of Hope.

3. And finally, I had to share this video sent to me by my animal-loving friend Joni. A dog regrets leaving her toy out in the yard:

Have a day filled with good news, and stay fabulous,

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

What I Wore: Summer Stripes

We've still got a month of 90 degree days ahead, so I'm not yearning for any Fall Fashion yet.

I picked up this cute little sundress at my favorite thrift, Molly Mutt, for $4. What a good find: it's by Loft (similar), it's machine washable, and has a cool mix of stripes. It's too short for the office, but perfect for weekend brunch, shopping with my sister, or a walk on the boardwalk.

And pockets, hello! I added my thrifted key necklace (similar) and thrifted Steve Madden gladiator sandals (similar). I think gladiators are "out" now, but Not Trendy, Don't Care. Smiley

Have a sunny day, and stay fabulous,

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Sunday, August 10, 2014

Visible Monday #136: The Floral Print Does All The Work

Welcome to Visible Monday #136! If you want to participate, it's so easy: just go to the bottom of this post for the how-to. Please be kind and leave a link to Not Dead Yet Style in your post.

There's nothing easier or cooler than a summer dress. This dark floral shift suits me just fine. I bought it at Dalitika, an online second-hand store. Check them out, there are some good bargains.

The high-waist dress is by Eddie Bauer, believe it or not. It's 100% cotton, hand washable. I'm wearing a two-charm necklace, my favorite dolphin hoop earrings (similar) and Anne Klein platform wedges (similar). Easy as it gets - the print does all the work.

The guitar hat, back by popular demand.

I really like my simple leather-strap watch from Target.

Now, show us what you're wearing, Visible Women!!

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  1. Whoever wants to can join in! Just compose a post that includes any outfit, accessory, piece of jewelry, hairstyle, cosmetic or other adornment that makes you feel more confident, alive and visible that day.
  2. Include a link to Not Dead Yet Style somewhere in your post. Please leave a comment, too, so we know you had a good time.
  3. Go to the bottom of this post and click on the InLinkz button "Add Your Link". It should open a new page.
  4. In the "Next Step", you crop the pic (easy tool) you want to display, and you're done!

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